Bigsam1514

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account created: Tue Nov 05 2013

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Bigsam1514

2 points

4 days ago

Bigsam1514

2 points

4 days ago

Thanks, my dude.

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Bigsam1514

15 points

5 days ago

Bigsam1514

15 points

5 days ago

I'm an incredibly patient man and I'm at my wits end.

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Bigsam1514

4 points

5 days ago

Bigsam1514

4 points

5 days ago

Dad.

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Bigsam1514

10 points

5 days ago

Bigsam1514

10 points

5 days ago

I wish.

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Bigsam1514

227 points

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Bigsam1514

227 points

5 days ago

She didn't say a lot. She kind of just shut down and we haven't really started talking again.

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5 days ago

Bigsam1514

16 points

5 days ago

I know what you mean. Idk if I'm being stupid and noble, or if I should walk away. Hopefully it'll be more clear after talking to a lawyer.

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Bigsam1514

44 points

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Bigsam1514

44 points

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I didn't let her. She just went behind my back and did it anyway.

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266 points

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266 points

5 days ago

No.

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212 points

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Bigsam1514

212 points

5 days ago

They were on sale for $75. Regularly $100(?)

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25 points

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Bigsam1514

25 points

5 days ago

I think so. I cut her umbilical cord. I changed her first diaper. I held her down for vaccines. I'm holding her as I type this because she had a bad dream and woke up crying. So many people are saying that I should cut ties with her, but I can't. I harbor no ill will toward this child. She has brought many sleepless nights, but she has brought many more smiles and so much joy to my life.

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Bigsam1514

839 points

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Bigsam1514

839 points

5 days ago

Wife brought it up not thinking I would get one and I just said Fuck it I'll take one. Found one online and then ten days later got the results.

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19 points

5 days ago

Bigsam1514

19 points

5 days ago

Karma better get me back with the real one later.

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28 points

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Bigsam1514

28 points

5 days ago

Surprisingly no. Trust me, I feel stupider than most rocks.

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35 points

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Bigsam1514

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Yes

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Bigsam1514

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5 days ago

No. My wife did.

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13 points

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Bigsam1514

13 points

5 days ago

I got cheated on.

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Bigsam1514

46 points

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Bigsam1514

46 points

5 days ago

I do not want to stay with the mother. Legally she's my daughter.

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Bigsam1514

12037 points

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Bigsam1514

12037 points

5 days ago

I'm getting a lot of the same questions so I figured I'll answer them here.

This was an at home paternity test from DNA direct solutions. I want to be her father because I love her and I don't think she shouldn't have a dad just because of the actions of her mother. By my state's law she is mine regardless of DNA. I'm not staying with the mother and am going to meet with an attorney to discuss my options.

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Bigsam1514

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5 days ago

Bigsam1514

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5 days ago

A paternity test. It tests if a man and child are related.

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Bigsam1514

3 points

5 days ago

No. I did an art home test.

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Bigsam1514

13 points

5 days ago

Home test with oral swabs. I did both.

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372 points

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Bigsam1514

372 points

5 days ago

DNA direct solutions.

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175 points

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175 points

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She brought them up. I'm not sure why. I don't think she expected me to order one.

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Bigsam1514

60 points

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Bigsam1514

60 points

5 days ago

I kinda flew through that stage. There was a wide variety of emotions all at once.

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Bigsam1514

238 points

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Bigsam1514

238 points

5 days ago

It makes me happy to know that you had a good relationship with him for so long. I hope to keep the same with her.

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